Turn warm network into respectful manual conversations.

Relationship Engine connects presence, pipeline, referrals, proof assets, and warm contacts. It does not send messages. It gives you a human queue, next touch, proof gate, and guardrails.

Simple layer. Pipeline tells you stages; presence creates visibility; relationship work decides who deserves a thoughtful human touch.

The generator reads local revenue, acquisition, offer, pipeline, cashflow, presence, delivery, company, portfolio, learning, and Watchtower files. It writes Markdown, JSON, and a cockpit import.

Run the relationship engine

node work/life-os-relationship-engine.mjs
# or
node work/life-os.mjs relationships

# then open:
outputs/life-os-command-center/relationship-engine.md

Use the relationship stages

ObserveName the real person and signal before contact.

ReconnectWrite one human message with context.

DiagnoseAsk about the workflow, owner, cost, and proof.

ReferralAsk for a specific intro with an easy no.

Work the conversation queue

1. Replace placeholders with real people.
2. Confirm an observed signal.
3. Review the suggested line.
4. Send manually only if it still feels respectful.
5. Record diagnose, referral, nurture, propose, or park.

Import into the cockpit

outputs/life-os-command-center/relationship-import.json

Proof from this run: Relationship Engine writes 25 contacts, 10 warm relationships, 7 referral asks, 14 nurture touches, 12 conversation queue items, 8 proof assets, 7 next actions, and 10 cockpit captures.

Guardrails

No automatic DMs, emails, comments, posts, private scraping, bought lists, placeholders, client data, or guaranteed revenue promises. Every final contact remains manual.